But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Now on to this week's question: learning how to touch your clitoris.

When it comes to the clitoris, that old saying "different strokes for different folks" has never been more true. And, considering orgasms aren't even on the table for many women without some clit play, figuring out what makes you tick is pretty important. If you want more stimulation, make your circle tighter until you start touching the clitoris itself. Once that baseline for pleasurable touch is established, feel free to get creative. Here are six new ways to stimulate your clitoris you may not have thought of before. It may be tempting to just zero in on the clit and start rubbing away, but that may not quite be what makes your clit tick. Try building sensation first.

Yoni massage therapy aims to help you feel more comfortable with your body and gain a better understanding of what feels good to you. For some, the slow and purposeful approach may aid in reconnecting with the body and approaching sensuality from a place of positivity. Yoni massage can be extremely stimulating. The practice focuses on several sensitive areas, including the breasts and stomach.

Skip navigation! Story from Sex. If you're a vagina owner , you're likely aware that your clitoris is a reported " magic button ," which can give you orgasms capable of solving world peace and ending world hunger. Yes, the clit exists — and yes, it can give you earth shattering orgasms — but it's all a little more complicated than that.